The Art of Masturbating, to Someone Else

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So welcome to the article where I talk about Masturbation, something most of us love, and we’ll the rest are probably the ones walking around judging us and saying we’re going to hell for doing so.

So what is masturbation you ask?? Masturbation is the self-stimulation of the genitals to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm (sexual climax). It is commonly done by touching, stroking, or massaging the penis or clitoris until an orgasm is achieved. Some women also use stimulation of the vagina to masturbate or use "sex toys," such as a vibrator.

So now that we got that out the way, (like we all didn’t know) let’s move forward. Although men and woman masturbate I’m going to touch base on my experiences with men more so the woman, so let’s do it.

In this post I just wanted to share my experiences, thoughts and feelings on finding out someone masturbates or masturbated to the thought, presence or social pictures and videos of myself.

My first face to face experience was about 5 years ago when I went on a date with this guy I had known for sometime. As we spent the night conversing, he grabbed my hand and in this moment is where this whole night took a left and well I, I didn’t have no clue what to feel in this second.

We sat across from one another, he looks in my eyes and proceeds to say, “ I masturbate to you.”

The reaction I’m sure you just felt reading this is almost equivalent to mine rather you’re a male or female, especially because we never was intimate before.

I don’t know what made him want to confess this at this moment to me but he did and I didn’t know what to expect next.

You know the phrase “The Cat got your tongue”, well my tongue was completely twisted because I was lost for words.

In this moment I completely paused, it’s like my whole body just froze up.

Deep down I wanted to say “why?, but not sure I really wanted to know, another part wanted to say “that’s fucking disgusting”, but didn’t want him too be embarrassed like I already was for him, so I just looked at him with a slight grin and replied “really”!

He explained why and was very vivid on the how, as the conversation wasn’t already more rocky than a boat on a stormy night.

I didn’t give it too much of my time, I eventually played off as I had an “Emergency” and dipped out.

Fast forward to 2019, more and more individuals have spoken about getting off to me, and although I’ve now comes to terms with it, my question is “Why do you feel the need to tell me?”

I don’t mind nor judge individuals on their sexual desires, I am a true supporter of self stimulation and feeling the best pleasure you desire however that may be.

I cannot stop folks for speaking their mind, BUT telling me you masturbate to me and very vivid with it doesn’t score you points nor turn me on. I personally rather you keep it to yourself than that be a topic of our discussion.

Again these are my thoughts and feelings towards someone telling me they’ve masturbated to me.

If you do it cool but it comes to a point where someone you don’t know or have a tight bond with consistently tells you how they release and in description, that ladies and gentleman is too much.

But thanks for reading and I hope you get a full bliss from masturbation and all it’s fun and self liberation it brings.

With love and light 💡

-Nove